To set context, a group called Dream Runners had organized a
Half Marathon at Elliot’s Beach. It had 2 categories: 21km & 11 km
Marathon. My colleague Swami had enrolled for it & he asked if I would be
interested. Being someone who relishes new challenges, I was quite eager to
take it up. Few of my college friends
are active Marathon runners & seeing their Facebook updates definitely serves
as an motivation. So, both of us signed for the 11 km run. I know that for
Marathon Pro’s – 11km will seem like a baby step, yet for me it was
significant, considering this was my first participation in an independent
event. The runner finishers were to be given certificate, a medal & a
T-shirt. While, I experienced the Marathon today, I realized few insights which
are very much relevant in our day to-day lives. I have shared 3 insights here
& hope that as you think over it, you may decide to empower your life by
following those insights.
- Barriers are self imposed
Most of the barriers be it physical, mental which we have in
life are self imposed. Be it be health, money, relationship, career, whatever be
the case, most of them are often self imposed. To give an instance, I have
never run a 10 km run. The maximum distance which I have run once or twice is
5km, which I run in the gym treadmill. So, when I signed on for the 10 km run,
the anxiety was indeed there, if I would be able to complete the race as the
distance would be almost double. Yet, I kept on affirming to myself that I would
be able to complete it. It may not be easy but certainly not impossible. Just
by positive affirmation, I wasn’t surprised when I was able to complete the race
(with extra effort) but also finish it in 1 hour & 10 minutes. I wonder if I would
have been able to do the same, if I had second thoughts or an attitude that I wouldn’t
be able to run 10 kms, because I have never done it. The case is same with many
things in our life. Be it a good job, a rich financial life, achieving our
goals, a lot of it depends upon how we look at it, and what we tell ourselves
in terms of achieving it. Just remember, you have unlimited freedom to achieve anything
you want, only if you realize that the so-called barriers which you foresee is
often self-imposed.
2. Age is not a limit
This was a surprising observation which I had during the
race. While running the 11km run, I saw that most of the 21km half marathon runners
were aged greater than 40. Similarly, under 11km race, there was a small kid
(hardly aged 10) & 2-3 elderly people (age greater than 55) who completed
the race. Again, this relates to our mental labeling that one needs to be young
to do things or with older age we can’t do many things. The sad part is we
impose this attitude on our-self & stop doing stuff which we enjoy, quoting
age as a factor. Colonel Sanders was 60 years old when he had founded KFC. You never
know what music you have got, hence break whatever age limitation you
have about yourself & go out pursue what you like doing.
3. Take it one step at a time
The secret to complete a Marathon is to focus on taking one
step at a time. Thinking about the entire race route would not only be over
bearing, it will also tire you out mentally. The ones who run slowly at a
steady pace will be able to successfully complete the race. The same holds true
for most things in our life. Whatever goals which you have set for yourself
(assuming you have set any) can be accomplished, if it is followed by a plan of
action, executed one at a time. Thinking about a having 2 crores in your retirement
fund 30 years later will seem to be unrealistic, yet the same could be achieved
by saving money systematically every month. Thinking about becoming a company
CEO 20 years down the line may seem challenging but the same will happen, if
you invest your current time in training
yourself & developing the talents required to be successful as a CEO. Any goal
in your life is achievable if backed with a good plan & an unwavering focus
on completing one step at a time.
I hope you found the insights useful & you reconsider your
current mental attitude to see if you are allowing any of it to hold yourself
back. Iam sure that there is a whole
world of magic waiting to be unfolded in your life. As for me, I look forward
eagerly to participate in the next 21km run. Do let me know, if you are aware
of anything that happens in Chennai.
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